I love this. Most of us only know the areas where we have lived or been surrounded by. For an Army brat they are constantly being moved around the country and sometimes even living in different countries. For another they may have lived in the same small town their entire life. Another might have been raised in the foster care system constantly being moved from one home to another. Think about it. We are all so different. No two people have lived the exact same life. Yes, many people have … [Continue reading...]
Day 98: Ideas in Limos and Planes
I love this quote in the book: "You can’t just dance or paint or write or sculpt. Those are just verbs. You need a tangible idea to get you going. The idea, however minuscule, is what turns the verb into a noun." —TWYLA THARP Think about that. As a writer, no matter how small the idea might be, we're able to turn that into a full length book. We can get ideas from any where. A little over two years ago I was told I needed to add fiction elements to my daughters book. The problem was … [Continue reading...]
Day 97: Clear Language
When we write do we want to be vague or do we want to be as clear as possible? I hope your answer was the latter. When we write we should want to be as clear and straight forward so there is no confusion on the part of the reader. The clarity of our story [...]
[Continue reading...]Day 96: The Things We Keep

In life as each day goes by we create memories. For the most part most of those memories aren’t that important so we forget about them. But the important ones sometimes feel like they embed themselves into our brains. When my daughter died I knew I couldn’t go back and live in the house where [...]
[Continue reading...]Day 95: Five Things Writers Can Learn from Dogs

I love the list from the book as these can be applied to not only writers, but so many things people do in life. 1. Be tenacious and curious about everything. Don’t be afraid to try and do new things. See where they take you. Who knows, maybe you’ll like it. 2. Abandon yourself to [...]
[Continue reading...]Day 93: Habits of Writers

I’ve always heard that in order to form a habit it takes 30 days of doing whatever it is everyday to make it one. For me this has never been easy. For example, remembering to take my medication. Trying to get into the habit of taking it every night at bedtime was so hard and [...]
[Continue reading...]Day 92: Rituals of Discipline

Discipline. Does it come natural for everyone or just for some while others have to work at it? I think it’s the latter two. For me, discipline hasn’t always been easy. I’d love to be like one of those people who set out to do something and they always do it. They don’t allow distractions to [...]
[Continue reading...]Day 91: Naming Names

In life we have all been given a name at birth, typically by our parents. My name, Kristena, is a rather common name in the way it is pronounced. The most common spelling is Christina, with Kristina in a close second. But then you have my spelling. When you first saw my name did you [...]
[Continue reading...]Day 90: The Wrestling Match
Here’s a question for you? Are you ever fully satisfied with yourself? If you say yes, I don’t think you’re being truthful with yourself. No matter who we are or what we do there is always room to grow. As a writer, I’m still a long way off from being able to write a book [...]
[Continue reading...]Day 89: Worries of Writing Memoir
I want, no, I need to share this excerpt from the book I’m using. Even as I sit here writing this, I feel my eyes moistening. I hope you will see why this has touched my heart and maybe why God lead me to the very book to use in my 365 day journey. “Robin [...]
[Continue reading...]Day 87: Lessons of Drama
Which one of these paragraphs has more of an emotional effect? Mom stared off into the distance. Her mouth didn’t move. Her hands stayed in her lap. One tear trailed down the side of her face. She stood and walked out of the room. Mom longingly stared off in the distance. Her stoic mouth didn’t move [...]
[Continue reading...]Day 86: Looking vs. Seeing
Have you ever been told before that you might be looking at something but you’re not seeing it? I think we all have at some point. An example is my daughter Mari. When we would go into a store and Mari would have a meltdown, people would look at her but that is just the [...]
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Day 85: Motivation
Motivation. What a word. It can mean so much to so many people, yet what motivates us is all so different. Just like our fingerprints are all different, so is the motivating power behind what we do. For me, what motivates me to keep writing on this website is my daughter. I can write about [...]
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